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HUSBAND.. PORN ADDICT!

Got married end of last year… happiest day of my life! 

Finally everyone had left, it was late, I was tired and a little bit scared! Didn’t know what to expect! 

We spoke for a while and then he finally asked if it was ok? Through all the talking the things mentioned, I thought HOW DOES HE KNOW ALL THIS?

We had been open and honest since the whole marriage talks – He never had anyone else in his life before, so where did he get all this from?

Ok so back up – I was always a ‘good girl’ hadn’t had a boyfriend etc. was pretty social, had lots of friends but thinking back to that night – Was I just NAIVE?!

My husband – he was amazing (still is!) really similar to me, had loads of friends, never been in a relationship and my family adored him… but did he have a SECRET!?!

Showered and dressed, ready for married life, we shared our first breakfast together. Felt so happy and complete to be with my husband – BUT I had to ask, JUST NEEDED TO KNOW! 

“How did you know all that? Everything you wanted to do or see me in.. How?”

He smiled, almost chuckled a bit, “All men know” 

Nearly MORE confused than I started with I asked again, “HOW?”

“Porn innit” – He said it so quickly, almost like he just wanted to say it and dodge it!

MY FACE MUST’VE JUST SAID IT ALL.

 My husband was clearly ashamed – He explained he doesn’t watch any porn anymore.

 Every guy watches it hun, you just can’t avoid it. It’s in your face wherever you go!

He had learnt about all these positions, ways to arouse, foreplay and role play things from PORN! The dirtiest thing I could ever imagine, now to hear my HUSBAND watched this – MANY TIMES!

I wanted to scream, go mad – But I stopped – Who was I really mad at? He was already ashamed of it – he NEVER did anything wrong with another woman – He kept all passion just for ME – So, who was I mad at?

I didn’t know then, but I was just mad. My naive eyes opened to a whole new world – a world that’s not just black and white, right and wrong – I started to wonder throughout the rest of that time (for a good few weeks)

Then things hit me – These images – these billboards – these subtle ads that all make men (maybe even women) think of ONE thing – Sex!

My husband – along with thousands of men around the world – constantly getting these images only turned to what they could find – PORN! And because it’s constantly in their face – they return to Porn, OVER AND OVER AGAIN!

From that filth, he knew all the positions- all the ‘stuff’ needed for ultimate pleasure.

Now don’t worry, I don’t hate my husband and yes we are still together MADLY in love!

But it made me realise, times are changing – everything is so readily available on your fingertips – My MAN is always challenged with nudity, sexual images and ideas everywhere he goes! So, I need to STEP UP THE GAME!

Yes I was bit stupid, I never read cosmopolitan magazines or picked up 50 shades of grey – Why would I? I don’t want to see naked women degrading themselves  - But it meant I didn’t know some of the things my husband wanted – which unfortunately he picked up from PORN! L

LUCK hit my path when I found In2mate Nights In2macy Guide (at the time in the making) Used all those foreplay tips and even the position tips…my husband LOVED!

Tables Turned (HAHA!) HE asked ME – “Where did you learn all that? (Worried voice – is it porn?!)

I had to share my secret (my friend’s in2mate halal in2macy guide – Thanks sis!) Was shocked to see he wanted a copy too! Being able to get all the practical tips without any embarrassing images was the FINESSE for our IN2MACY!

I didn’t need to to turn to PORN and disgusting magazines to find ways to please by husband.

There are MANY MEN out there watching PORN; Yes you are trying to control your desires and not sleep around but this is not any better!

 HUSBANDS – Find the alternative! My husband was disgusted to share that secret, but the past is the past – My husband is no longer a PORN ADDICT – his only ADDICTION now is ME!

Now he can shop for ME without any images to make him feel embarrassed again! Perfect!

 

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